Why my Twin Flame is toxic, making me difficult to handle them.

There are many who feels the Twin Flame relationship is toxic. Understanding this journey your Twin Flame merely a Mirror reflection of you. Which is what you are at your internal world. That must change to attract and magnetize your Twin Flame towards you. Well, your Twin Flame isn't searching for someone to take care of them; they seek your wholeness to complement their own.

When you embody the oneness within you, they get attracted because you have overcome the lack you had in your aura. The people who operate in lack are usually needy. Your Twin Flame cannot go along with you when you are needy for anything. Needy for attention, needy for love, needy for anything. 

This is what everyone seeks—a person who is whole, aware of their wholeness, using it to transmute wants, lacks, karmic remnants, and various human situations left over in life. This understanding is the key to your union with your Twin Flame. The affirmation of being, the acknowledgment that you are one with your Twin Flame eternally is the essential for your Union.

If you are in moments of sadness, self-pity, or mood indulgence, remember that it is the lack of love that resemble in the absence of joy. At such times, remind yourself: you might have lost the connection with your Twin Flame. In such mood swings you cannot be connected with God, those are the moments you are connected to the Ego state. Your Twin Flame shouldn't have to endure your moods, self-pity, or self-indulgence. See your Twin Flame as the God-counterpart, and in reverence for God, commit to remaking yourself to be irresistible to the divine.

So, recognize your worthiness, even if it's not apparent at the moment. Decide who you are, what you need to do, and seek guidance from God. Remake yourself your Twin Flame are drawn to you. Decide to be the person your Twin Flame seeks.  It's through action that you find God—in yourself and in your Twin Flame. Be proactive and impactful on your journey to discover the divine within yourselves and your connections with others.